That is
where the wedding was supposed to be but we were in Traverse City on Lake
Michigan and just like the unpredictable weather in the mountains, by the water
you never know. The intention was to
hold the ceremony on a peninsula at the 45th parallel mid way between the North
Pole and the Equator. There had already
been a great deal of rain so the groom and his brother traipsed out the day before the wedding to see if the peninsula was under water, and it wasn’t, yet!
As you can
see from the image the initials for Jenifer (I don’t want to hear from the nitpickers Jenifer with one “N” is the unique way she spells
it) and Dan (my older son, known as Danny to his family) had been set with the
date in stones. After watching glorious sunshine over the water with boats and
waist deep fishermen in the lake during the early morning of the actual wedding
day, within a short while the clouds rolled in and it was not long before the
waves started to pick up and the lake looked more like the sea. As
luck would have it a few hours before the appointed time we received a phone
call from my son informing us that we would be indoors after all.
In the
end the rain let up long enough to hold the wedding ceremony outdoors in the
newly weds lovely rustic garden which had been decked out with lights on the
porch and banisters down to the garden and in the bushes and trees with some
Christmas Reindeer for good measure. It
was most effective. There was just the
close family in attendance but when you take all the grandparents, siblings and
grand children into account it ended up between 25 and 30 individuals.
(Back to Front) Aidan, Danny, Jenifer, Meg, Lucy and Eryn |
The
wedding couple had written their own wedding vows bringing the bride to the
brink of tears and leaving a huge smile on the grooms face. An officiant made it all nice and legal.
Later in
the afternoon the party began. There were
about 40 adults and the same number of children! The doors to the garden opened and closed
500 times and that was just the kids. I am
sure you can imagine 40 children with an average age between 7 and 11 chasing
each other from one made up game to another.
Someone, should have brought a whistle to stop the action every once in
a while but all were getting along and were happy. Amidst the hubbub drinks and
hors d'oeuvres were served outside.
Just as
it began to rain again we were invited into a large tent where a grand dinner
was served. I would like to think that
the quesadillas for hors d'oeuvres and the fajitas at dinner were done just for
us, the New Mexican family but I had already been informed that the foods were
all favorites of the bride and groom.
The newly
weds both gave lovely welcome speeches with accolades for their children,
siblings and guests alike. I made a
toast of welcome to our new family and Danny's brother, Hunter, the actor, did
an original humorous Rap piece enjoyed by young and old alike. In fact one little girl announced out loud,
"That was entertaining!".
After a
short break inside we went back to the tent for the traditional wedding
cake.
Danny is a commercial real estate broker by day but he has
a band during his off hours. As a teen
ager after a less than auspicious beginning with a violin,
he directed his musical
talents to the drums and has continued
to play. He formed a band in Traverse
City so the two brothers, without the full band did a song requested by the
younger set in their practice room
The evening ended in dancing by all and for some went on until after
midnight.